chore(server): Iron out all tracing (allowMissing, dynamic resolutions, etc.)

[ryan-roemer]

• Programmatic Solution?: Find a programmatic way if possible to see what's not used in server output. Maybe even compare against serverless output or Next.js internals in how it decides deps for serverless mode?
• Tune: Augment and tune all the jetpack / allowMissing / dynamic.resolutions config.
• Verify no log misses.
• Add to trace-deps https://github.com/FormidableLabs/trace-deps/blob/main/docs/configuration.md