Support for --abort-on-container-failure (to match docker compose)

[gtebbutt]

Is your feature request related to a problem? Please describe.

Using compose to run containers that are expected to have a limited lifespan (e.g. running multiple test environments in parallel) doesn't currently have a mechanism to detect if one of those containers fails. The existing --abort-on-container-exit flag will abort everything even when a container finishes successfully - makes sense for server tasks that run indefinitely, but doesn't work when individual containers are expected to exit when their tests have finished.

See docker/compose#10225 for discussion around the same issue, with --abort-on-container-failure being added as the fix.

Describe the solution you'd like

Add --abort-on-container-failure, to stop all containers only if a container exits with a nonzero code.