replaceWith Resource Option (#16594)

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* Update content/blog/dependent-resource-replacements/index.md

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Co-authored-by: meagancojocar <[email protected]>
Co-authored-by: Sara <[email protected]>

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+title: "New in Pulumi IaC: `replaceWith` Resource Option"
+date: 2025-12-09
+meta_desc: "You can now use the `replaceWith` resource option to inform Pulumi of extra dependencies"
+meta_image: meta.png
+authors:
+    - tom-harding
+tags:
+    - features
+    - iac
+    - releases
+
+social:
+    twitter: "New in Pulumi IaC: Use the `replaceWith` resource option to declare custom resource dependencies and ensure coordinated replacements across your infrastructure."
+    linkedin: "Pulumi introduces a powerful new feature for fine-grained infrastructure control: the `replaceWith` resource option. Now you can explicitly define dependencies between resources to ensure coordinated replacements—perfect for scenarios like restarting services when databases are updated or managing complex multi-resource dependencies."
+---
+
+The magic of Pulumi is that we rarely have to worry about the fine details of *how* our deployment and infrastructure management works, allowing us to focus instead on *what* we want. If our program declares an S3 bucket, Pulumi handles creation, updates, and deletion automatically.
+
+Most of the time, this is exactly what we want. However, some use cases require finer-grained control over resource dependencies. Today, we're introducing the `replaceWith` resource option, a new feature that gives you explicit control over replacement dependencies between resources.
+
+<!--more-->
+
+## Custom resource dependencies
+
+When replacing a resource, the Pulumi engine walks the dependency graph to determine what else needs replacement. However, the answer isn't always obvious:
+
+* Some dependencies aren't obvious at the infrastructure level. For example, restarting a database server may require restarting its consumers to reconnect.
+
+* Provider-specific challenges exist. You might not be able to update a subnet's properties while resources are using it, even without an observable dependency. Any subnet change must be accompanied by changes to all its consumers to avoid errors.
+
+* Application-level dependencies may exist beyond infrastructure. If two services maintain open connections in the application layer, replacing one should trigger replacement of the other.
+
+## Declaring our own dependencies
+
+The `replaceWith` resource option makes these dependencies explicit in your code. Similar to `deletedWith`, passing references to other resources via `replaceWith` defines a relationship: when any target resource is replaced, the source is also replaced. This has some interesting implications:
+
+* We can define a number of resources that all `replaceWith` each other, and so any change to any member of the group will trigger an update to all the others.
+
+* Relationships are transitive: organizing resources hierarchically where children `replaceWith` their parents means any ancestor change triggers replacement of all descendants.
+
+## In code
+
+{{< chooser language "typescript,python,go,csharp,java,yaml" >}}
+
+{{% choosable language typescript %}}
+
+```typescript
+import * as pulumi from "@pulumi/pulumi";
+import * as aws from "@pulumi/aws";
+
+const database = new aws.rds.Instance("app-db", { /* ... */ });
+
+// The database location is provided to this instance
+// by other means, so there is not an explicit dependency
+// linking the two.
+const app = new aws.ec2.Instance("app-service", { /* ... */ }, {
+    // Here, we explicitly tie the two together: if the
+    // database is upgraded, for example, we will need to
+    // restart the application instance to ensure that
+    // a connection is re-established.
+    replaceWith: [database],
+});
+```
+
+{{% /choosable %}}
+{{% choosable language python %}}
+
+```python
+import pulumi
+import pulumi_aws as aws
+
+database = aws.rds.Instance('app-db', {})
+
+# The database location is provided to this instance
+# by other means, so there is not an explicit dependency
+# linking the two.
+application = aws.ec2.Instance('app-service', {},
+    # Here, we explicitly tie the two together: if the
+    # database is upgraded, for example, we will need to
+    # restart the application instance to ensure that
+    # a connection is re-established.
+    opts=pulumi.ResourceOptions(replace_with=[database])
+)
+```
+
+{{% /choosable %}}
+{{% choosable language go %}}
+
+```go
+import (
+    "github.com/pulumi/pulumi-aws/sdk/v6/go/aws/ec2"
+    "github.com/pulumi/pulumi-aws/sdk/v6/go/aws/rds"
+    "github.com/pulumi/pulumi/sdk/v3/go/pulumi"
+)
+
+database, err := rds.NewInstance(ctx, "app-db", &rds.InstanceArgs{ ... })
+if err != nil {
+    return err
+}
+
+// The database location is provided to this instance
+// by other means, so there is not an explicit dependency
+// linking the two.
+application, err := ec2.NewInstance(ctx, "app-service", &ec2.InstanceArgs{ ... },
+    // Here, we explicitly tie the two together; if the
+    // database is upgraded, for example, we will need to
+    // restart the application instance to ensure that
+    // a connection is re-established.
+    pulumi.ReplaceWith([]pulumi.Resource{database}))
+if err != nil {
+    return err
+}
+```
+
+{{% /choosable %}}
+{{% choosable language csharp %}}
+
+```csharp
+using Pulumi;
+using Aws = Pulumi.Aws;
+
+var database = new Aws.Rds.Instance("app-db", new() { ... });
+
+// The database location is provided to this instance
+// by other means, so there is not an explicit dependency
+// linking the two.
+var application = new Aws.Ec2.Instance("app-service", new() { ... }, new CustomResourceOptions
+{
+    // Here, we explicitly tie the two together; if the
+    // database is upgraded, for example, we will need to
+    // restart the application instance to ensure that
+    // a connection is re-established.
+    ReplaceWith = new[]
+    {
+        database,
+    },
+});
+```
+
+{{% /choosable %}}
+{{% choosable language java %}}
+
+```java
+import com.pulumi.aws.ec2.Instance;
+import com.pulumi.aws.ec2.InstanceArgs;
+import com.pulumi.resources.CustomResourceOptions;
+
+var database = new com.pulumi.aws.rds.Instance("app-db",
+    com.pulumi.aws.rds.InstanceArgs.builder()
+        .build());
+
+// The database location is provided to this instance
+// by other means, so there is not an explicit dependency
+// linking the two.
+var application = new Instance("app-service",
+    InstanceArgs.builder()
+        .build(),
+    // Here, we explicitly tie the two together; if the
+    // database is upgraded, for example, we will need to
+    // restart the application instance to ensure that
+    // a connection is re-established.
+    CustomResourceOptions.builder()
+        .replaceWith(database)
+        .build());
+```
+
+{{% /choosable %}}
+{{% choosable language yaml %}}
+
+```yaml
+resources:
+  database:
+    type: aws:rds:Instance
+    properties:
+      # ...
+  # The database location is provided to this instance
+  # by other means, so there is not an explicit dependency
+  # linking the two.
+  application:
+    type: aws:ec2:Instance
+    properties:
+      # ...
+    options:
+      # Here, we explicitly tie the two together: if the
+      # database is upgraded, for example, we will need to
+      # restart the application instance to ensure that
+      # a connection is re-established.
+      replaceWith:
+        - ${database}
+```
+
+{{% /choosable %}}
+
+{{< /chooser >}}
+
+Of course, this is a simple example, but hopefully it illustrates the point: we now have a way to make implicit dependencies between resources more explicit within our programs, and provide hints to Pulumi as to which services depend on others.
+
+## Next steps
+
+This feature is supported as of [Pulumi `v3.207.0`](https://github.com/pulumi/pulumi/releases/tag/v3.207.0), and is now available within the Go, Python, NodeJS, and Java SDKs, with C# and YAML coming soon. Thanks for reading, and feel free to reach out with any questions via [GitHub](https://github.com/pulumi/pulumi), [X](https://x.com/pulumicorp), or our [Community Slack](https://slack.pulumi.com/).