[insteon] Fix missing links implementation

[jsetton]

This change fixes the missing links implementation. It includes:

• Ignore missing modem links when the modem monitor mode is on.
• Allowing device with one component to have a component ID of 0 or 1 instead of being driven by the default link configuration.
• Removing default link command support migrating the configure commands as hidden features.
• Refactoring the device missing links console commands

This should be backported as the current implementation identifies false positives with unnecessary warning log statements, along with the addMissingLinks console command failing to add multiple modem missing links in a row requiring the command to be ran multiple times.

[jlaur]

Thanks!

[jlaur]

@jsetton - the commit cannot be cherry-picked into 4.3.x due to conflicts. In order for this to be backported to the next patch release, please provide a PR targeting 4.3.x directly with a clear note and reference to this PR.

[jsetton]

please provide a PR targeting 4.3.x directly with a clear note and reference to this PR.

Done. Conflicts were related to #17958.

[lsiepel]

Patched by #18280